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June 5, 2017 By Racheous

If you follow us on Instagram, you would know we recently moved home. We rent and we decided to move closer into the city to make Mike’s commute to work shorter and us closer to our friends and the places we frequent.

I’m going to share much more on living intentionally, minimalism with children and the why and how we got to this space.

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(Several people asked – Lucy is playing with a marble tree here. We got ours from Finlee and Me and there’s similar here in the US)

I want to preface this by saying we are certainly a ‘during’ (not an ‘after’) and while we are in the realms of minimalism, we don’t feel there yet!

There’s a spare room in our home with a few boxes full of paperwork for Mike’s business and some things I need to sell or donate. Our garage isn’t organised with all Mike’s work gear and under our home we have our laundry and a multi-purpose room which we intend to make into a messy creative space so it has some paint and clay.

Moving played a huge role in this process of really intentionally working towards what possessions we have and why. We pretty much only brought with us what serves our family’s needs. We rent and we made sure we looked for spaces that suited us and our life.

We decluttered more than once and still have work to do. This was NOT a one time fix and we had help from friends. We started this process 18 months ago!

I hope you enjoy this little tour of our home as it is now!

When you enter the front of our home, you’re greeted by our living area.

In this open space we have the majority of the kids toys and art supplies. To the left next to the art caddy is a low white table. We used to have SO many different kids tables. Now we just have the one and haven’t looked back!

In the woven trunk on the left is full of Lego and the white chest to the bottom right has dress ups and soft toys in it.

We also started over with art materials because we used to own every type of art material.

The whole conditioned belief that abundance is necessary for children is so consuming! I’m glad to be past that. For us this works perfectly and really frees up our time and space for more intentional living.

I’ll go through the kids choices in more detail in my upcoming post on minimalism and children!

(the lock box you can see at the bottom right is one of my kids most used toys which we have had since Cam was a toddler)

Minimising kids toys was just as much (if not more) about me than them. The accumulation of ‘stuff’ was huge – especially because we homeschool and I thought I needed SO much in order to do that.

You can see an old ‘homeschool spaces tour‘ which showcases just how much we owned!

My kids love their choices and their play has transformed to being something far more intentional and resetting after a full day of play is simple (and they are often happy to help!)

Since deschooling we have grown together to realise how little is really needed! As unschoolers we reject the idea that learning only happens through special places or with special books or resources. Learning happens everywhere and having an abundance of space and time to experience the world has opened up far more opportunities to authentically learn and grow.

I must say we did this WITH our kids and they chose all their possessions. I will write more about this but it was so important to us that they were part of the process.

We started with ourselves first which helped them to see how much more manageable things are when you only own what you love and what serves your genuine priorities in life.

To the left of here is our sunroom which we use as a computer room.

We put a couch in this space because it overlooks the living area and backyard so is perfect for me to sit and feed baby and as a central spot to hang out.

You can’t see it in this photo but we have a crystal hanging in the window which Ava loves playing with.

We are yet to figure out a system for paperwork so any tips would be appreciated!

Next to this space is our toilet and then our kitchen.

We put our dining table in our kitchen as it’s large enough and that’s really encouraged family meals.

To stop this space from becoming a catch-all for things, we always try to reset our kitchen every night and make sure everything is in its ‘home’.

We really pared back on all our dishes, baking items and replaced all our plastic Tupperware with glass jars and containers. We now make our own simple cleaners with natural ingredients. We used to have so much mismatched plates and cups and mugs! This essentially just meant when we did tackle dish washing it was a huge task!

 

We had some forced minimalism which happened when our kettle broke and we have decided to just use the stove and make us more intentional about the amount of hot drinks we consume. We also put away appliances like our toaster and all the extras we kept on the benches into the cupboard in the top right there.

We now just have our water filter (from here), microwave (considering donating this), my homemade kombucha and thermomix out.

 

We got rid of so much ‘junk’ and ‘miscellaneous’ items from our drawers and now they are quite empty. We also upgraded some of our items to be higher quality pieces that will last us. Our knives no longer live in a block and are in our drawer.

As highschool sweethearts who married and had children young, most of our belongings have been second hand (almost all our furniture is second hand) or really cheap and part of minimalism for us was investing in our future. It’s not all about getting rid of things!

Our pantry doesn’t always look like this! (This was all organised after moving in but before stocking up) But we try to keep everything in order now and use what we have.

We previously had a family bed but now Cameron sleeps in his own bed most nights (top bunk there) while Lucy and Ava sleep with us in the family bed. This was his own choice. Part of our reason for keeping a 3 bedroom home and not downsizing was in case our kids wanted space of their own.

Cam and Lucy share these drawers and cupboard for all their clothing and shoes. Lucy loves jewellery so has a jewellery box and Cameron loves soccer so has his medals and trophies.

The cupboard is mostly empty aside from shoes and a couple of dresses and coats hanging. The drawers were second hand and are looking worse for wear but they do the job.

Our bathroom has storage which keeps our cleaning products which are minimal, toilet paper and some ‘beauty’ things like bentonite clay and magnesium salts. I also cut the kids’ hair when they want so I have tools for that in there. The cupboards under the sink are empty bar some scales.

 

This is the cabinet on the wall. I don’t use make up but have some organic mascara (in that wooden box with some tweezers, nail clippers, etc). The pink bag has my menstrual cup, with my deodorant next to it (when this runs out I’ll be doing a DIY with essential oils). The second shelf has a nail brush and a neti pot. The third shelf has my lotion bar from Lush, several oils for face cleansing, apple cider vinegar and activated charcoal for face masks.

The final shelf has my most used essential oils which I use in my shampoo, face cleansing routine, for spot treatments on my face and in our natural cleaners just to mention a few uses.Β Outside the bathroom is a linen cupboard which has our towels (two each and two beach towels). We have two sets of fitted sheets and mattress protectors per bed and one doona and pillow each. We need to update for winter though as we want to save on heating. We also keep board games in here and nappies.

This is our bedroom and family bed. Yes, we are so lucky to have so much room! We have a king mattress and queen mattress on the floor.

Our wardrobe on the left has drawers in it with our underwear, swimmers and Ava’s clothing. On the right we share a wardrobe with shoes and most of our clothes and Mike’s work stuff is hanging.

I’ve always been more minimal with my clothing and shoes. It’s just my personality and style! However I also invested in quality clothing and love EVERY item I own now. I have a capsule wardrobe (would anyone want to see? It’s boring to me) and 3 pairs of shoes (I used to have one… I’m very particular about what I wear and like very basic comfortable clothing)

We are so enjoying our ever changing home based on our needs! I have found it a really lovely process slowly editing what our surroundings are like.

 


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Comments

  1. Nay says

    January 6, 2018 at 8:22 pm

    This is such a huge transformation!! I love ot! Can you talk more about how you decided what to keep for the kids play and schooling, why made the cut, and how their exploration has been without all the spaces and extras? I am struggling with the thought of limiting my kids in our unschooled journey because I am keeping out all the stuff.

  2. Arika says

    December 30, 2017 at 1:00 am

    Thanks for sharing all these photos! We have Really pared down the stuff we own over then years, but I am struggle to go to that next step. These photos were a helpful example of how my night minimalize more! :)

    I do have a question; how do decorations factor in? I’m not a ug fan of cluttery Knick-knacks, but I do have art on the walls that is meaningful to us. You don’t see to have hat; any particular reason why?

  3. Amanda says

    September 6, 2017 at 8:10 pm

    Love this post it just popped up again as a great reminder as we de clutter for the new year. Had to smile at the family bed we have similar although in different rooms, my husband sleeps with miss 5 in her room in our old queen mattress and I sleep with our son mr 2 in our king bed, we have been contemplating just bringing the beds together in one room πŸ€” But then when my sister stays it’s handy having the queen for them to sleep in and we all squish in the king πŸ˜„.

    Question…how do you go with family and friends and giving gifts at Christmas and birthdays? This is where we struggle with being loaded with excited people giving so much stuff that we don’t really need. We trialed a donation idea for the kids birthday this year unsuccessfully really. I don’t want to come across as ungrateful and have suggested tickets to things or passes, lessons etc but I feel they feel they need to give something tangible πŸ€”πŸ€”. Would really appreciate some feedback from others on some ideas especially leading up to Christmas. πŸ‘πŸ‘ warm wishes 🌻

  4. Shirleen Christenson says

    August 12, 2017 at 12:21 am

    I was just curious. In the picture after your unschooling comments–the one with the sofa on the right and computer to the left, what are the objects we see outside the window? For the life of me, I can’t figure out if they are boxes, roofing, decking??? BTW–good job minimalizing…..your home has a wonderful relaxing feel.

  5. Denee says

    June 30, 2017 at 5:30 am

    Would love to see what you and the kids decided to keep for your learning environment!

  6. Holly says

    June 19, 2017 at 4:52 am

    I just discovered your blog. Unschooling and minimalism! I am captivated. I’ve been working on shifting in both those directions for a while now. It’s hard to figure out how to do it. I’m eager to read your posts on how you respectfully and cooperative accomplished minimizing and simplifying your children’s things, and how you, as a family, maintain that while pursuing your unschooling lives!

  7. Rebecca says

    June 6, 2017 at 10:28 pm

    Thank you for sharing your experiences decluttering. It’s so interesting. I too would love to see your capsule wardrobe!
    Looking forward to reading about how you shared the process with your kids.
    X

  8. Heather says

    June 6, 2017 at 10:46 am

    This came at just the right time! We will be moving soon with our four unschooling kids and I am so eager to cut down on the visual/physical clutter that consumes my time and energy! I am eager to read how you involved your kids.
    For paperwork, we did the KonMari strategy of discarding everything except a very few necessary documents. You could take it even further and digitize using something like Evernote (or so I hear :)).

  9. Jan says

    June 6, 2017 at 3:51 am

    So much room to do things! Wonder if it would be enough for Canadian winters, where we’re inside a lot. Tempting to see.

    Just wondering where you socialize with family and friends? I only see one two-seater couch.

  10. Dimitra says

    June 6, 2017 at 1:35 am

    Great post 😊 We’ve been trying to declutter for over a year and still going lol It takes so long. I thought I was finished last year and still today In getting rid of mugs and glasses and other nonsense I somehow missed last time πŸ˜ƒ I have nailed the bathroom though that is perfect πŸ‘Œ and we also got rid of plastic contsiners for glass and I always feel extra happy using them coz I know there are no toxins in them. My husband and my girls have got rid of some of their things over the weekend but we all still have alot. I cant wait for your kids posts for inspiration πŸ˜‰

  11. Dimitra says

    June 6, 2017 at 1:34 am

    Great post 😊 We’ve been trying to declutter for over a year and still going lol It takes so long. I thought I was finished last year and still today In getting rid of mugs and glasses and other nonsense I somehow missed last time πŸ˜ƒ I have nailed the bathroom though that is perfect πŸ‘Œ and we also got rid of plastic contsiners for glass and I always feel extra happy using them coz I know there are no toxins in them. My husband and my girls have got rid of some of their things over the weekend but we all still have alot. I cant wait for your kids posts for inspiration πŸ˜‰

  12. Alexa says

    June 5, 2017 at 10:55 pm

    I would like to see your capsule wardrobe.

  13. Marie Eroh says

    June 5, 2017 at 10:17 pm

    Looking forward to your next post!

  14. missmikimoto says

    June 5, 2017 at 9:30 pm

    I love reading stuff like this……was there a particular reason as to why you have no colour, tactile textile surfaces or artworks? As an artistically driven person I find such inspiration in texture, colour and art as it encourages joyful expression. As such I am a bit more Kondo method than minimalist but I’m just interested as to whether this reflects a particular philosophy.

  15. Jenny says

    June 5, 2017 at 9:01 pm

    We are gradually moving towards minimalism (though a long way to go yet) and finding we value space a huge amount but dont need to fill it with stuff! I’m still trying to find a balance between having a manageable, intentional amount of stuff and having the home cozy and interesting. I’m sure it is an achievable balance but takes a lot of thought (I was raised to have hoarding tendencies). I clicked through to the old homeschooling spaces post, and would love to hear how you managed minimizing kids stuff. As unschoolers I’m wary of curtailing their options and want to provide interesting things at home as we spend a good deal of time indoors (Irish weather!). Your old post had lots of things that I would’ve thought were great for the kids but I could also see how there was a lot to keep organised. I find my kids (3 and 5) express an interest in pretty much anything, which is great, but then makes me unsure about getting rid of anything
    Thanks so much for sharing your process and ideas!

  16. Rachel says

    June 5, 2017 at 5:23 pm

    With the books – I couldn’t get rid of the hard copies. Firstly we are big readers and I worry about what so much screen time is doing for my eyes. Especially because the only time I have to read for myself is before bed and I am concerned about screen use messing with our circadian rhythms. But thankyou for sharing! We are definitely not there yet but recently moved and have been using that as an opportunity to downsize. I don’t know if we will ever be truly minimalist though.

  17. Anna Vaschina says

    June 5, 2017 at 5:13 pm

    This is wonderful and inspiring.

    Giving up books has been hard. My husband finds it really hard so he has got a lot of books. I guess we have our own version of minimalism, still a work in progress.

    Did you find the thermomix a good investment? Did it replace many appliances as it promises?
    Have you missed anything you gave away? Are you planning on minimalising more?

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